I hate people posting on FB about the anniversary of my brother’s death. I don’t want to even remember that day, let alone have to deal with well meaning wishes reminding me.
I thought about calling my mother. I thought about calling my sister-in-law. I did neither. They both know what day it is and talking about it makes it much worse for me.
Only a year. We are now past the death inflicted ‘firsts’. Hopefully, it will get easier.